how to make people do what you want...

Today, I’ll tell you how to get another person to do what you want.

Seriously…

You know the situation.

Maybe you want your brother to go on self-improvement.

Maybe you want him to go to the gym.

BUT

No matter how much you try to convince him…

He still says ‘no’.

And that’s why I’ll show you how to get him to say ‘yes’.

Let’s get directly into it.

#1 Never do this…

Often, when we are convinced that our opinion is the right one.

We might be a bit too intrusive.

But this is exactly what gets people in a kind of ‘defensive mode’.

NEVER be intrusive.

Always show respect for the other person's view,

And try to understand THEIR way of thinking.

You can now address people's reasons behind the decision a lot better.

#2 Arouse an eager want

Instead of saying ‘Oh you’re a pussy’ if he don’t want to go to the gym…

You should arouse an eager want in him.

Show him the positives.

He will make friends a lot easier…

The clothes will look better on him…

Or it’s just better for his health.

But whatever you say:

Make it about him.

Don’t say how many girls you get.

Tell him that HE makes more friends.

Okay, let’s move on to the last point…

#3 Make the person saying ‘Yes,Yes’ immediately.

This is psychological phenomenon,

As soon as a person says ‘no’,

His whole body is also changing into a defensive position.

He’s a lot more likely to say ‘no’ again, just because of biological reasons.

So…

You have to get him saying ‘Yes, Yes’.

Simple.

Ask him 2 questions, on which you know he agrees with.

For example:

Do you want to be healthier? 

Do you want to look more attractive? 

Guaranteed ‘Yes, Yes’.

Now he’s much more likely to agree a third time…

Especially, If you use rule #2 and arouse an eager want in the other person.

Simple right?

Try it out today.

Jesus loves you.

Alex.